{"id":2101,"date":"2014-01-25T21:45:15","date_gmt":"2014-01-26T01:45:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/atotw.com\/archive\/?p=2101"},"modified":"2014-01-25T21:45:15","modified_gmt":"2014-01-26T01:45:15","slug":"the-impact-of-a-hanover-boy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atotw.com\/archive\/?p=2101","title":{"rendered":"The impact of a Hanover boy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dear fellow Hanoverians:<br \/>\nI am hard-pressed to find adequate words to describe what the loss of<br \/>\nMatthew Cox means to our community. I think one of the things that<br \/>\nstrikes me the most is the outpouring from all corners of town\u2026young<br \/>\nand old, classmates and teammates, parents and grandparents\u2026for a<br \/>\nten year old boy who so many of us knew, but so many more of us did<br \/>\nnot know, myself included. So, we got to know him, we prayed for him,<br \/>\nwe wept for him, and when it was announced Friday that he was gone, we<br \/>\nwept some more.<br \/>\nMatt was a Hanover boy. Raised here until last summer by his<br \/>\nkindhearted and loving parents Ann and Bill, he played sports here,<br \/>\nwent to church here, and he grew as old as he would become here. His<br \/>\ntragic zip-lining accident the day after Christmas was every<br \/>\nparent\u2019s worst nightmare. The innocence of a child, snatched while<br \/>\nlaughing and playing? Whose heart would not break at that news?<br \/>\nSo we did what Hanoverians do. We rallied around Matt and his family.<br \/>\nWe stopped each other in the hall or grocery store to check in with<br \/>\nnews about him. We read \u201cCaring Bridge\u201d updates to each other at<br \/>\nwork, posted Facebook updates on our smartphones, and created<br \/>\n\u201cMessages for Matthew\u201d on a website. Hundreds of light blue<br \/>\nribbons were wrapped around telephone poles and mailboxes all over<br \/>\ntown. Games were dedicated to him. We donated money, took up<br \/>\ncollections of gift cards, and printed up bracelets. We gathered at<br \/>\nSt. Mary\u2019s to pray, and some even found renewed faith thanks to Matt<br \/>\nand his family. We shared stories of Matt in the classroom, on the<br \/>\nball fields and skating rinks, and in our homes. And we hoped, and we<br \/>\ncried together.<br \/>\nHe brought us together, that too-young Hanover boy. For four weeks, we<br \/>\nwere a little softer around each other, and perhaps a little more<br \/>\nforgiving. Some of us played with a bit more intensity because we<br \/>\nrealized how fleeting play can be, and I am sure we were more loving<br \/>\nwhen looking in the eyes of a child. From all I have heard about him,<br \/>\nthat sounds like who Matthew Cox was every day for his ten years:<br \/>\nsofter, forgiving, playful and loving. Maybe we\u2019ve all become a<br \/>\nlittle bit more like him. What a gift therefore he was to our<br \/>\ncommunity! Godspeed Matthew Cox. Our thoughts and prayers are with<br \/>\nthose who loved you.<\/p>\n<p>For &#8220;Around Town on the Web&#8221;,<br \/>\nCathy H-B<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<br \/>\n&#8220;Around Town on the Web&#8221; (&#8220;ATOTW&#8221;) has been a valued push notification<br \/>\nsince the spring of 2004 &#8211; long before there were push notifications!<\/p>\n<p>For submission guidelines and answers to frequently asked questions about<br \/>\n&#8220;ATOTW&#8221;, please go to http:\/\/www.atotw.com.<br \/>\nTo search for archived &#8220;ATOTW&#8221; news, view the archive.<br \/>\nIf you would like to be added to this distribution list, click here.  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